How do I get my girlfriend to feel comfortable with having sex?

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Me and my girlfriend used to have sex frequently. She used to be on the pill but now she has developed an allergy to it. She is off the pill and now doesn't feel comfortable having sex while she is off of it.

We have tried double wrapping and other things but she still doesnt feel completely secure doing it that way. Its also extremely difficult to get her in the mood for sex because of this.

Is there anything I can say to her or any other simple form of protection that we can use that could make her feel safer???

Please and thank you for all of your help!
 
Lol. My little girls say please and thank you...
Okay, I have to think on this. Girlfriend...young. I guess you are in college. Oral. Thats my first thought. But then there are more birth control divises out there. A IUD comes to mind, but I'm not sure thats what its called. a .....uh, Diaphram maybe? See someone about this, like a planned parenthood physician.
 
vasectomy

lol jk

get that ring thing.. thats like monthy birth controll.. i forgot the name.. but its not a pill its just like a ring that controls birth and it goes in the girl
 
Dont pressure her on doing it.
bc she thinks you just like her for sex
and my ex always asked me for sex and i said no
and then i broke up with him bc he always pressured
me on it and it bothered me bc it seems like he only
liked me for sex. so i would wait till she is comfortable
with having sex..
 
just wait she might want to have sex sooner or later and if you want to get her in the mood its all about what she prefers does she like forplay? or what? DONT use 2 condoms at once that more unsafe than 1 condom because the 2 condoms rub together and then theres a lot of friction because they are rubbing together and that will make both condoms break so just stick to one and there are girl stuff like foam or something like that she can use to prevent anything as well
 
Please don't try to pressure her into doing something she doesn't want to do. If she feels uncomfortable, then you can hold off. Plenty of couples end up waiting until they actually get married. If you really love her, it won't matter that you're not having sex with her. Anyway, even using condoms--even using two condoms--is still not completely safe, and the fact that she's not on the pill gives her a higher risk of pregnancy, especially considering the fact that a lot of women are extremely fertile once they've stopped taking it.
 
you know double wrapping increases the risk of the condom breaking, right?

i feel for ya. ive been in the same boat now for 2 months now, but for a different reason. waiting sucks. just dont bring not having sex up.
 
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