I have been with my current girlfriend for almost a year now, we have strong feelings for each other, and we see each other everyday and spend the night every night (my place weekdays and hers on the weekends). I want to have sex everyday (or close to it) and she seems to not want it at all. I have brought up the issue a few times and we have "agreed" to try to have sex 3-4 times a week. The past two months I have kept track of how often we actually had sex and it averages 2 times per week at best and she never wants to have it while on her period. Its VERY rare to have sex 2 nights in a row. When we do have sex we both orgasm, so I don't think there is a problem in that sense. Can you help me please?
Not only am I trying to have sex more with her, I am trying to make it more interesting. We have pretty much only had sex in her bed (with the rare occasion of moving to the floor or a couch in the living room). The only time I feel like she is really into it is when she is under the influence (of alcohol). What should I do? I want to try and make our relationship work.
Other information:
* We are both 23
* We were not virgins when we started dating
* We were friends long before we started dating
* I am her first boyfriend, ever (making me much more experienced and her not so much)
* She is on the pill and has been since she was in high school (before she lost her virginity) No other medications
* Weekdays we don't see each other till late (10-11pm)
* Weekends are busy for the both of us
* We are NOT fat (actually very thin and we workout every so often)
* We have never had a fight
* She is an only child and I have 2 brothers (I don't know if that helps)
* She is not cheating on me nor am I cheating on her
I hope that is enough information to help the issue.
What advise can you give me that can help this relationship? Maybe a game of some sort to get her in the mood? Things to say or do to her to get her in the mood? Pretty much ANYTHING will do. I am looking forward to the responses.
Not only am I trying to have sex more with her, I am trying to make it more interesting. We have pretty much only had sex in her bed (with the rare occasion of moving to the floor or a couch in the living room). The only time I feel like she is really into it is when she is under the influence (of alcohol). What should I do? I want to try and make our relationship work.
Other information:
* We are both 23
* We were not virgins when we started dating
* We were friends long before we started dating
* I am her first boyfriend, ever (making me much more experienced and her not so much)
* She is on the pill and has been since she was in high school (before she lost her virginity) No other medications
* Weekdays we don't see each other till late (10-11pm)
* Weekends are busy for the both of us
* We are NOT fat (actually very thin and we workout every so often)
* We have never had a fight
* She is an only child and I have 2 brothers (I don't know if that helps)
* She is not cheating on me nor am I cheating on her
I hope that is enough information to help the issue.
What advise can you give me that can help this relationship? Maybe a game of some sort to get her in the mood? Things to say or do to her to get her in the mood? Pretty much ANYTHING will do. I am looking forward to the responses.