imported_Tristen James
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My old high school sweet heart dated for 5 yrs before breaking up mutually. (we both wanted to experiences the whole college dating scene) we remained close and 2 yrs ago she got married. We are 24 yrs old now. HEr husband is in the army and isn't around a lot. This past winter we ended up bumping into each other at a pub, and we ended up talking and hanging out. I realized how much I missed her but thought it was Just old feelings coming back because I hadn't seen her in a while, Well in the last 8 months those feelings Just keep getting stronger. back in may I got really drunk and she drove me home and I kissed her, one thing lead to another and we had sex. She said that it couldn't happen again and that it only happen because she was lonely, btu it has happened a lot since then. At first it was Just sex, and now we both know that we love each other and we dint want to be apart. the problem is her husband is over seas and she says she cant hrt him like that. she said that she has to wait for him to come home before so she can talk to him face to face. I can tell she feel horrible for what she did to him, ever letter he sends, every phone call she gets there is so much guilt on her face. I don't want to see her upset but I don't want ot leave her until he gets HOME. how can I make her see that our feelings are just to Strong and that she did nothing wrong.