How do i get him to want sex?

[Kaely M]

My guy and i have been together a year and a half. Lately the sex has been slowing and it bothers me. The last time we had sex i mentioned it and he said hes been stressed at work and tired and kinda depressed lately and just hasnt had the drive. Also said the less i try or pressure him to have sex, the more he wants it. We had a fight not long after and we still kinda are refinding our footing but its been ok. I havent been pressuring or trying either and still no sex. i do make sexual comments all the time but thats just me. I dunno if he takes that as pressure? What can i say or do to get him to have sex again, its been a month and i want him so bad. Please help

 

[STFU_0123]

When your stressed, a decreased sex drive is definatly going to be in the cards, ontop of that, hes depressed (also not good for your sex drive). Its possible that he sees your sexual comments as an added pressure to have sex and the more the issue is pressured, I can guarantee the less it will happen. Talk to your guy about the problems hes having. The most you can do is just be there for him, support him, and let him vent to you. If your there for him emotionally, in due time he may start to feel better and afterwards you guys can work on getting back on track as far as things go in the bedroom. If things worsen or your guy doesnt start feeling better after some time, you may want to attend a counseling session to see what you can do.