I am very enamored with a girl who goes to my university. I've spoken to her lately via Facebook, but I am sure she only replies to be polite and avoid giving me the correct impression that she does not care about me. I am certain beyond a shadow of a doubt that she is attempting to subtly hint her disinterest in me. About six days ago, I sent her a message asking her how she's doing and received no response - this is very unusual for her. Yesterday I decided to call her out on it by sending a message. It read as thus:
"Can I ask you something?
Why do you make your dislike of me such a secret? Why haven't you told me off yet? Just admit it, OK? The reason you haven't answered my message is because you are attempting to socially ostracize me, just as everyone else does. Go ahead. Say it. Be brutally, viciously, gut-wrenchingly honest."
She replied as thus:
"What do you mean? I'm not trying to get rid of you. Calm down, everything's fine. I wasn't ignoring you, I just didn't know you sent me a message."
I replied as thus:
"HA! LIAR! You are INTENTIONALLY refusing to respond in order to give me the cold shoulder. Look, if you want me to go away, just say so! Don't be a coward and try to merely "hint" at it."
She replied as thus:
"Why do you feel as if I'm lying to you? It may be hypocritical for me to say this, but you shouldn't just assume things when you don't know the full story. When I received that message, I must have overlooked it. I'm sorry. I don't want you to go away, honestly."
I replied as thus:
"Sure you don't.
It's fine, sorry I bothered with you. =)"
I sense a deep sense of denial in her responses, brought about by complete indifference toward my being. How do I convince her to confess her disdain for me?
I am not insane. Insanity is when you are convinced that false perceptions are realities. This particular perception is not false. I am simply aware of the true nature of our acquaintanceship.
"Can I ask you something?
Why do you make your dislike of me such a secret? Why haven't you told me off yet? Just admit it, OK? The reason you haven't answered my message is because you are attempting to socially ostracize me, just as everyone else does. Go ahead. Say it. Be brutally, viciously, gut-wrenchingly honest."
She replied as thus:
"What do you mean? I'm not trying to get rid of you. Calm down, everything's fine. I wasn't ignoring you, I just didn't know you sent me a message."
I replied as thus:
"HA! LIAR! You are INTENTIONALLY refusing to respond in order to give me the cold shoulder. Look, if you want me to go away, just say so! Don't be a coward and try to merely "hint" at it."
She replied as thus:
"Why do you feel as if I'm lying to you? It may be hypocritical for me to say this, but you shouldn't just assume things when you don't know the full story. When I received that message, I must have overlooked it. I'm sorry. I don't want you to go away, honestly."
I replied as thus:
"Sure you don't.
It's fine, sorry I bothered with you. =)"
I sense a deep sense of denial in her responses, brought about by complete indifference toward my being. How do I convince her to confess her disdain for me?
I am not insane. Insanity is when you are convinced that false perceptions are realities. This particular perception is not false. I am simply aware of the true nature of our acquaintanceship.