I have been married 3 years and with my husband a total of 5 years. We have 3 children, 11, 2.5 and 5 months. I am having issues with intimacy. Most times I am so tired after running after the kids all day that I just want to sleep. But when I do engage I am really not into it. I never can climax. I feel awful for my husband and he has been so patient. We have tried mixing it up but then I just get soooooo frustrated. I don't know what else I can do to increase our special time together and am looking for maybe some suggestions from people who have been in this positon before. This really started since my last baby. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Craig- First of all I never said that it was up to my husband!!!!!! The title was "my intimacy issues. I feel bad because of the simple fact that he is also affected by my state of mind. In no way was I blaming him for anything. Second of all, Yes I do have an 11 year old child from a previous relationship. In no way is he "baggage" !!!!! I think that maybe you need to take a look in the mirror because obviously you are a complete a$$ to be pointing fingers at people who are just looking for serious advice. It is obvious that you have you know idea what you are talking about.
Craig- First of all I never said that it was up to my husband!!!!!! The title was "my intimacy issues. I feel bad because of the simple fact that he is also affected by my state of mind. In no way was I blaming him for anything. Second of all, Yes I do have an 11 year old child from a previous relationship. In no way is he "baggage" !!!!! I think that maybe you need to take a look in the mirror because obviously you are a complete a$$ to be pointing fingers at people who are just looking for serious advice. It is obvious that you have you know idea what you are talking about.