Charlotte(:
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long story short, i was having a sort of 'thing' with this guy, we were talking since november and i grew to really, really like him. We told eachother we liked eachother it was lovely and i was so so happy!
Anyway, about 5 weeks ago he went on holiday for two weeks and ended up staying there for a month because of the flight ban. Whilst he was gone, i turned down a few guys because i didn't know where me and him were and i didn't want to ruin anything. However, when he came back he made no effort to speak to me and i found out that he had sex with a girl on holiday and that he still really likes her and is texting her alot even though she lives across the country. The fact he had sex with her doesn't bother me at all but the fact that he likes her hurts so much! the way i was just forgotten about like that.. so when he came back to college i didn't talk to him, i didn't even look at him, I just completely avoided him. This must have effected him in some way though because he sent me a message on facebook asking me why i was ignoring him and that he's lost my number. I didn't reply for a day so i could think about what to say. I ended up saying 'i'm just not gonna get in the way of you and your new woman' and then i put my number. He texted me saying he still wanted to be my friend and that he was only talking to me as a friend and he didn't mean to lead me on !?!?!?!?!?! i just didn't text him back because it hurt so much.
so yesterday, i was still blanking him but my friend said i was being rude because he kept smiling at me and i was just looking away so i went up to him and said "sorry for overreacting, let's be friends" and he seemed happy with that.
my problem now is that i see him with his phone all the time! every 5 minutes he whips it out, obviously texting her. I still really really like him so when i see him texting i actualy feel sick. I hate the thought that he likes her more than he ever liked me, and that he never really did like me..
I want so bad not to like him anymore! someone please give me some advice!? xxxxx
Anyway, about 5 weeks ago he went on holiday for two weeks and ended up staying there for a month because of the flight ban. Whilst he was gone, i turned down a few guys because i didn't know where me and him were and i didn't want to ruin anything. However, when he came back he made no effort to speak to me and i found out that he had sex with a girl on holiday and that he still really likes her and is texting her alot even though she lives across the country. The fact he had sex with her doesn't bother me at all but the fact that he likes her hurts so much! the way i was just forgotten about like that.. so when he came back to college i didn't talk to him, i didn't even look at him, I just completely avoided him. This must have effected him in some way though because he sent me a message on facebook asking me why i was ignoring him and that he's lost my number. I didn't reply for a day so i could think about what to say. I ended up saying 'i'm just not gonna get in the way of you and your new woman' and then i put my number. He texted me saying he still wanted to be my friend and that he was only talking to me as a friend and he didn't mean to lead me on !?!?!?!?!?! i just didn't text him back because it hurt so much.
so yesterday, i was still blanking him but my friend said i was being rude because he kept smiling at me and i was just looking away so i went up to him and said "sorry for overreacting, let's be friends" and he seemed happy with that.
my problem now is that i see him with his phone all the time! every 5 minutes he whips it out, obviously texting her. I still really really like him so when i see him texting i actualy feel sick. I hate the thought that he likes her more than he ever liked me, and that he never really did like me..
I want so bad not to like him anymore! someone please give me some advice!? xxxxx