He is completely self-absorbed and doesn't want to get a job or go to school (he graduated high school but he doesn't go to college). The problem is that his mother spoils him like crazy with the money she makes and buys him expensive "toys" and she does all his clothes and makes his bed, cooks his food, etc. even though he's 19 now. He still sleeps in the same room he had as a baby. All he wants to do is stay home and play with his playstation/x-box/ipod/ipad/computer, etc...or else go skating on his skateboard with his friends. He never does anything. When I tell him to get a job he lies about trying to find one and it never happens. I love my son, but I am tired of him thinking he's still 10 years old. I know it will make his mom really upset, but do I have a right to lose my temper at this point?
He just refuses to do anything and lies about taking steps to do something
He just refuses to do anything and lies about taking steps to do something