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disneyprincess30
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My fiances family and I don't exactly see eye to eye. I have been dating matt for 8 years and this oct. we're getting married. And even after eight years I still don't feel like I fit in. I have made efforts in the past to bond with them, but it always gets thrown in my face. They aren't an expressive-share-emotions-or talk about anything family. They are very closed off and don't really talk to me. The only one that ever has a convo with me is the mother and i can't trust anything she says half the time because she lies to me(and yes I've caught her numerous times) and she is manipulative. She's all nice to your face and willing to do anything and then as soon as you walk away she talks negative about you. I am just trying so hard to bond with them because I believe family is important, but when they don't want me around because they feel I;ve ruined their son's life and that i'm not good enough, how do I accomplish a bond. I thought marrying him would help show serious, but is hasn't