the girl made me wait 1 month because she is confused about her feelings for me, i went to confront her in person two Saturdays ago and she told me she doesn't know where her feelings fo rme stand anymore. i asked her "so you really don't like me anymore" and she said"who said i don't like you?" so basically she still likes me, but she still isn't sure. she doesn't know what she wants or what to do.
it was kind of my fault to be honest, so i write her a letter telling her why i didn't open up to her as much and how i was afraid of being in a relationship again because i was afraid of feeling heartbroken, etc. and that i didn't feel like i was ready for another relationship at that moment, until i finally realized that i was ready, and now she's uncertain. (also gave her roses for an apology) and this was just last Tuesday we haven't talked since and it's been really bugging me and i have to know an answer, i know that i should move on but what's holding me back is that i REALLY need an answer. i want to ask for closure but how do i do this? i haven't talked to her for a week now and i'm afraid of the awkwardness.
the letter and rose was an apology because i haven't told her everything and all of my issues, it wasn't because i was feeling desperate or what not. i just didn't want to hide it all from her so wrote how i felt and why i took so long to make my move on her, i wasn't fully open to her to be honest. i just didn't feel like i was ready for a relationship and i had commitment issues, until i realized that i was ready now. and all the confusion i've caused for her. i just wanted to throw everything out on her so she would understand why.
she also blogged about it and said :S i really appreciate it i really do it was sweet what you did. but it wasn't your fault. what to do what to do.
I'd understand if she doesn't want to be with me but pushing me away just because we didn't work out doesn't seem like the way to end things, I'd still like to be her friend..
it was kind of my fault to be honest, so i write her a letter telling her why i didn't open up to her as much and how i was afraid of being in a relationship again because i was afraid of feeling heartbroken, etc. and that i didn't feel like i was ready for another relationship at that moment, until i finally realized that i was ready, and now she's uncertain. (also gave her roses for an apology) and this was just last Tuesday we haven't talked since and it's been really bugging me and i have to know an answer, i know that i should move on but what's holding me back is that i REALLY need an answer. i want to ask for closure but how do i do this? i haven't talked to her for a week now and i'm afraid of the awkwardness.
the letter and rose was an apology because i haven't told her everything and all of my issues, it wasn't because i was feeling desperate or what not. i just didn't want to hide it all from her so wrote how i felt and why i took so long to make my move on her, i wasn't fully open to her to be honest. i just didn't feel like i was ready for a relationship and i had commitment issues, until i realized that i was ready now. and all the confusion i've caused for her. i just wanted to throw everything out on her so she would understand why.
she also blogged about it and said :S i really appreciate it i really do it was sweet what you did. but it wasn't your fault. what to do what to do.
I'd understand if she doesn't want to be with me but pushing me away just because we didn't work out doesn't seem like the way to end things, I'd still like to be her friend..