How do I apply for financial aid?

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My mother makes 178,000 a year, my dad makes 75000 and I live with my mom, not my dad. He lives in another city...the problem is my mom is for some reason refusing to pay for my second third and fourth years of college. She said after the first Im on my own...Im planning to go to a UC...Ive worked my behind off to make it there and now I'm worried because my dad can't afford all of it on his own, I cant get a lot from Financial Aid because I have to put in my moms info since I live with her and Idk how much I can get in scholarships...I'm moving in with my dad after my last semester of high school. FAFSA told me I can put the parent who pays the most for my utilities...Although I live with my mom, my dad did pay for a lot of my stuff, he gives me money monthly for food, clothes shoes, he paid for my online class, a prep class, helps with gas money...Could I put his information although I don't live with him? I mean this sucks, I cant get money from FAFSA because of my stinkin selfish mom and my dad can't afford all of it... what the heck. I thought FAFSA was for those in need and I'm in major need right now. Plus Im getting a job at panera bread this semester to make asmuch as i can and save up...Any idea or help for the situation i am in, can I put in my dads information or would that be providing false info?