Proud mom of 3
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I love my boyfriend very much. But his daugther who 9 year old is a different story. She act like she really over protective of her dad and thinks she needs her daddy all to herself. Now her mom who she sees at some point once a few months is fine with her mommy dating someone. My boyfriend has full custody of his daughter. This been going on for three months now and I don't know want else to do.
His daughter is really mouthy and it to point it needs to stop. It doesn't bother him but it does to me. I told him she doesn't need to be this mouthy and needs time out for it. One time his daughter said ( we was talking a friend of my cousin) that she wants to beat up my face. He didn;t care. I know he would punish her for that if it didn't happen. This is coming from a 9 year old. I been very nice to her and nothing seems to work. i feel like my two boys are getting punished more for something they do but not her. I am going to have a talk with him tonight when all kids are in bed about this. She tells every one that she doesn't need to listen to me. Well she does and we are getting a place together.
Now his 9 year old thinks her baby dolls needs everything a real baby needs. Clothes shoes diapers and a real car seat. She has to bring them them every where. I think she is darn spoiled. Yesterday we was going out to eat. She put on my daughter shoes and I told her no. That my daughter needs to wear them. No my baby does not her. He said when u ready to go and I said well when your daughter gives me my daughter shoes. Well he told her and she got mad. Then we left and she kept saying we need to go to good will store to get my baby dolls a pair of shoes. Come on a baby doll doesn't need them. She acts like they are will babies. She acts like she die if she can't take them with her. This really becoming a embarassing thing. This how bad it gets. She takes two of them in the resturant. He told her to leave one in the car but she didn't. I got a high chair for my daughter and she act mad and whining. He got her a high chair for her baby doll. I state last night that no more that she taking the baby dolls in resturant or any where because this is 9 year old and every one looking.
I am going to talk to him tonight about lot of things. We need to figure out how we going to handle her. His daughter mother is really unfit mother and I know her mother tells her a lot of stuff and this might be half the problem. I know she doesn't like us dating. He told me she has to work around this. But it doing nothing but putting strain on our relationship. Last night she felt like I was accusing her using my boys shampoo which I wasn't. I saying some how my boys shampoo that was full that was in the closest half way gone. Then she wanted to take a bath. He told her that she had to wait till I got my shower first. She act like she was the boss. She asked me why her baby shampoo outside on the floor ( out of the bathroom) I said i just put there for now. Well she complained where my towels where and she put them on the floor. Well I put them back and she got back. Well this morning I found out she took my kids tooth brush and tooth paste on the floor out of the bathroom.
We can't wait for good while before getting a place together. Because I need help with my 3 kids and me and my mom are not getting along anymore. We need to do serious talk about every thing.
how did your future step children acted when they found out their parent was dating.
Thanks
His daughter is really mouthy and it to point it needs to stop. It doesn't bother him but it does to me. I told him she doesn't need to be this mouthy and needs time out for it. One time his daughter said ( we was talking a friend of my cousin) that she wants to beat up my face. He didn;t care. I know he would punish her for that if it didn't happen. This is coming from a 9 year old. I been very nice to her and nothing seems to work. i feel like my two boys are getting punished more for something they do but not her. I am going to have a talk with him tonight when all kids are in bed about this. She tells every one that she doesn't need to listen to me. Well she does and we are getting a place together.
Now his 9 year old thinks her baby dolls needs everything a real baby needs. Clothes shoes diapers and a real car seat. She has to bring them them every where. I think she is darn spoiled. Yesterday we was going out to eat. She put on my daughter shoes and I told her no. That my daughter needs to wear them. No my baby does not her. He said when u ready to go and I said well when your daughter gives me my daughter shoes. Well he told her and she got mad. Then we left and she kept saying we need to go to good will store to get my baby dolls a pair of shoes. Come on a baby doll doesn't need them. She acts like they are will babies. She acts like she die if she can't take them with her. This really becoming a embarassing thing. This how bad it gets. She takes two of them in the resturant. He told her to leave one in the car but she didn't. I got a high chair for my daughter and she act mad and whining. He got her a high chair for her baby doll. I state last night that no more that she taking the baby dolls in resturant or any where because this is 9 year old and every one looking.
I am going to talk to him tonight about lot of things. We need to figure out how we going to handle her. His daughter mother is really unfit mother and I know her mother tells her a lot of stuff and this might be half the problem. I know she doesn't like us dating. He told me she has to work around this. But it doing nothing but putting strain on our relationship. Last night she felt like I was accusing her using my boys shampoo which I wasn't. I saying some how my boys shampoo that was full that was in the closest half way gone. Then she wanted to take a bath. He told her that she had to wait till I got my shower first. She act like she was the boss. She asked me why her baby shampoo outside on the floor ( out of the bathroom) I said i just put there for now. Well she complained where my towels where and she put them on the floor. Well I put them back and she got back. Well this morning I found out she took my kids tooth brush and tooth paste on the floor out of the bathroom.
We can't wait for good while before getting a place together. Because I need help with my 3 kids and me and my mom are not getting along anymore. We need to do serious talk about every thing.
how did your future step children acted when they found out their parent was dating.
Thanks