I live with my girlfriend, and have for a decade now.
And we are more or less engaged, and she is my spouse.
But I don't like the word spouse, I prefer partner, but more than half the people I mention my partner in conversation , they usually say , oh you're gay.
I'm not, and it's as if the term partner has been hijacked by gay people, the way the word gay now means homosexual instead of happy.
I'm not happy, and I'm not gay !
And we are more or less engaged, and she is my spouse.
But I don't like the word spouse, I prefer partner, but more than half the people I mention my partner in conversation , they usually say , oh you're gay.
I'm not, and it's as if the term partner has been hijacked by gay people, the way the word gay now means homosexual instead of happy.
I'm not happy, and I'm not gay !