I've been seeing this guy for 9 months he's 28, i'm 25. I lost my virginity to him.
He said we were always 'seeing eachother' as our status. He said he always felt we were not compatible. I guess i'm more quiet and he's more outgoing type. But when we go out shopping/movies etc we act like a loved up couple, he holds my hand, kisses and hugs me in public, says i'm smoking hot/sexy shiit lol but he doesn't say i'm his gf. 2 weeks ago he said we should stop seeing eachother as we weren't suited and i want more then he wants and he doesn't want to hurt me. . But he wanted me back, infact he was begging. So we are back seeing eachother again.
So he tells me he cant see me on valentines day cause he is seeing a friend.
Then goes he's not sure when he's free this week but will let me know. I did bail on him once last week, but i guess i never know where i stand. I'm getting sick of this.
How can i turn this around so i can gain some control. I know i should just stop seeing him, but then again i really would miss him too much.
If i start acting like abit of a biatch maybe? What can i say to have him coming back?
I don't like seeing him 'every now and then'.....he always comes back, so then i do have some control?
He said we were always 'seeing eachother' as our status. He said he always felt we were not compatible. I guess i'm more quiet and he's more outgoing type. But when we go out shopping/movies etc we act like a loved up couple, he holds my hand, kisses and hugs me in public, says i'm smoking hot/sexy shiit lol but he doesn't say i'm his gf. 2 weeks ago he said we should stop seeing eachother as we weren't suited and i want more then he wants and he doesn't want to hurt me. . But he wanted me back, infact he was begging. So we are back seeing eachother again.
So he tells me he cant see me on valentines day cause he is seeing a friend.
Then goes he's not sure when he's free this week but will let me know. I did bail on him once last week, but i guess i never know where i stand. I'm getting sick of this.
How can i turn this around so i can gain some control. I know i should just stop seeing him, but then again i really would miss him too much.
If i start acting like abit of a biatch maybe? What can i say to have him coming back?
I don't like seeing him 'every now and then'.....he always comes back, so then i do have some control?