omkareem20
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our son is 18 months and he is the most wonderful little angel. he has cerebral palsy and hydrocephalus. he is still like an 8 month old in many ways, and is going to go in a wheelchair in the next few months. the dr's have all told us that it is perfectly safe to have another child and this might not happen...problem is, my husband doesnt seem to believe it. im not planning on having a baby right away, but i thought in about a year would be fine to give our son more time to develop and see what happens. my husband keeps saying everytime i try to bring it up, our son is enough for him and we should give him everything and he doesnt want another baby. i know he is scared, i am too, but i do want another baby in the future. how can i calm his fears and let him see it would be ok? anyone else go through this?