how can i stop to discuss with my girlfriend everyday about her history?

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while i was in czech rep. for study i met my girlfriend.but now we r in 7th month and the bigest problem is her history.before me she slept 2 boy.1 is more than 1 year the other 4 year long relationship.she 23 years old.but she slept with me our 3th day when we just meet.we wasnt together yet.but we was meeting everyday.when we think serious and future i started to disturb about it. she said me "i didnt do it without dating before me" and "i wanted to tried it" and "i was shy about myself" etc.it was sure we wasnt thinking to date yet and ofcourse something serious.after 10 day i spoke with her about what i feeling and and she said "just enjoy. u know its imposible because u will come back after 5 month to my country".after she said she will think about it and we started it.when our 3th week we had love crazy. she is telling she too much changed and dont wanna loose me because of history.im making sad her too much about this and im vulgar sometime because of she wasnt holly virgin before me:).i get her cried too much time..actually i cant accept any sexual history.and i cant accept that she can slept with somebody she just meet. but i think i can change this for her..i know she hate cheating.and she never did it..she accept my history..we are feeling cultural differences jonly at this subject.yes im turkish guy and conservative
 
hey i get ur point about tht ur conservative and have high values for your religion....but if there is mutual trust than this relationship should work...... the whole virginity thing should'nt matter that much.....and yes before getiing into something serious ...like marriage or something do think about the acceptance in ur family and hers ......otherwise if you are ready... fck the rest..
 
Someone's culture does not make them not for you. People do things the wrong way at first and then realize they made a mistake. Let what happend be in the past. Live in the here and now. If you love her and she loves you then stay with that, let the other stuff go. You have to be where you are now, no one has a time machine. If you cant leave it all in the past it becomes YOUR issue. Be the first person in this relationship to let it go, and she will too K?
 
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