How can I stop being so shy and just talk to him? I get put off by his actions....

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dottie.X

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...Help!!? I'm 16. This guy used to show interest for a year (he's outgoing) but I was shy and didn't show it back. This year my timetable was being passed along & he kept his head down and wouldn't pass it on! He couldn't look at me in a group. When I was near he'd either look down and widen his eyes at ground(?) or stare straight past me.

I sent him a rose for Valentine's day and the day after I confessed it was from me he tried to sit next to me but the girls woldn't move down a seat for him, so he sat in the front row. He stared at me in class that day but I ignored it. He can't look at me once again, stares straight past me when we walk past each other. :( Is it because I gave him mixed signals? I keep thinking it's because he doesn't care. :( How can I stop getting put off/shy and talk to him? I hate myself for always missing chances. Help!
 
Okay wtf^^^ ...So clearly IGNORE the first 2 answers above. Alright girl, he's into you. obvi. But he probably just decided to move on because you were giving him mixed signals(doesn't mean it's too late to reverse that, fyi) Just show him that you ARE into him, and don't back out once you do. Meaning, flirt with him or even straight out tell that kid that you like him, whatever you want... But then once you do, do that, stare at him back if you see him looking at you from across the room, smile at him when he looks at you, etc. You get the picture! Trust me, I was in one of the same situations, and this is what I did. So don't hate yourself for missing chances, just make up for it(:

Hope I helped!
 
I wish people like you would stop playing victim and stop lying.

Be honest. In the beginning you were playing games and testing him to see how far he would go. But he finally got smart and decided to move on and now you're sad, looking for someone to console you even if it is strangers on Yahoo Answers.

Not from me you little bitch.
 
In this situation you haven't missed any chances, this fellow is showing you his complete immaturity and lack of respect for you as a young lady. This fellow apparently isn't as secure as he may have appeared to be, when he's displaying such behavior towards you. I'd move on and hopefully find some one who will show you the respect you deserve.
 
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