How can i stop being mad at my mom and help her to not complain as much?

Frost

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PLEASE READ I NEED REAL HELP!!! well i get tired of her complaining all of the time! i'm 13 for goodness sake! My mom has been grumpy all morning and and has been yelling at my dad for every little thing that is wrong! lets say he leaves a light switch on. she blows up! Well i got tired of her yelling and told her to shut up. she deserved it. she sent me to the corner in the hall way. after a few min she said "are you ready to get out? did you think about what you did?" i said "I guess not cause i still don't know what i did wrong!" she said "you told me to shut up" and i said "well you wouldnt stop complaining" she said "well i guess you will have to stay in there longer" i said "ok fine, i got all day" my dad was trying to persualde her to let me free but she wouldn't. when me and her argue my dad is on my side a lot cause he knows i'm right! she left to go to hobby lobby(or somewhere) just a few min ago and my dad said i could come in the living room. he wasn't mad at me at all in fact. i ran out to her car but she wouldn't roll down her window. i get anxiety attacks and depression very bad sometimes. i can't forget about what happened but i refuse to wish i hadn't said "shut up". ok well i feel bad but i think she needs to learn a lesson and realize that we get tired of her complaing about everything and yelling about them. what should i do to help her. i don't want to be mad at my mom cause i do love her but i just can't be nice when she acts like that. none of my other family members get yelled at by me(or yell at me). i'm told i'm a sweet heart by my other family members. please help me!
 
You need to accept that your parents are your parents. Even though they are not going to be right all the time, chances are they still know some things that you need to learn. To stop being angry, all you have to do is: Stop. Realize that anger doesn't solve anything or make you feel better. You will be happier without your anger, so just let it go.
 
i think your mom must love you..Because she loves your family, she wants to control every member of her family..more love, more control..that's my opinion.Therefor, what you do is calm down and pardon her.
 
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