How can I solve this?

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D-Conn

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Alright, before you read this thread go to the cockfarm and read my other threads about the girl that I like. The are titled "turning over a new leave and turning over a new leave 2."

See I have this problem that I kind of got myself into. I told that girl that I like that I love her. However, she still has a boyfriend and she thinks that we are too young just because we are in high school, and that we are too immature and so forth. She says that it can't be possible and I say bullshit, you can't tell me what I love and that just because I am in high school doesn't mean that I don't know what love is. What exactly should I do to work my way out of an arguement that could end what I have built with her? cuz I don't want her to think of me as an obsessive freak or anything and I do want to be with her still.
 
Being with someone isnt about being in love, its about compatibility, and timing.

I 'love' being around a lot of people. That doesnt mean I should be destine to be with them the rest of my life. Its not that simple. You cant just love someone and expect to be with them. Not even if they love you back.

And jesus fuck you're in high school! Wait until you have a well paying job or a 4 year degree before you even START to think about being with someone full time.

If you want to just date her and fool around do it, but don't make a commitment this early in the game. Its a garunteed mistake.
 
unless he fucked around like me and is tired of living that lifestyle and wants to settle down....but then again i am 21 now so i got a few years on ya.....i say try 2 4get that bitch...she has a boyfriend....if she breaks up with him to be with you cause you said "i love you" its not the movies man....face the reality....that means that when you guys are together for lets say 2 yrs and you have very strong feelings towards her and she meets a guy who will say "i love you and i have a nice job" she will LEAVE YO ASS!!!
 
love is over rated, there is no such thing as love in highschool and anybody who thinks differently can kiss my ass. Teenagers mistake love with horny emotions and think that they know what love is when there like "oh man, love at first site". BULLSHIT. True love seldom happens and sometimes people (who have graduated from highschool) rush into thinking another is their true love. Love comes with time and patience. U love someone now, later on u like them, then u dont mind them, then ur annoyed, then ur fighting. Happens ALL the time. I am no love expert but i am an analyst. Love is achieved through mistakes and misfortunes experienced with a true soulmate that one can enjoy every moment with no matter what happens. You must be willing to sacrifice all for a true love. So shame on you observer, for being so over-confident in your knowledge of love.
Now if its the ass ur looking for then just tell her straight up. u LIKE her and ud wanna be with her on sunday. simple, acceptable.
Love... wtf?
 
Hovering around waiting for her to break up w/ her bf like a vulture waiting for something to die is a REALLY shitty way to start a relationship, serious or not. It tells the girl, at least subconsciously, that you lack self respect because you have nothing better to do than devote your time to waiting for her to be available to you. If she thinks you don't have enough self respect, she wont respect you either. Having the chick you are chasing NOT RESPECT you, sucks ass. she will treat you like shit, and you will probably let her, and she knows it. Even if she agrees to hook up with you (on any number of terms) it won't last long because you are no challenge, she doesn't have to work for your esteem, you already have enough adoration for her to make you seem boring in her eyes, which goes back to HER insecurity.

Read: "I suck" + "he likes me" = "he must suck too, but even more than me."

she probably thinks that if you knew more about the "real" her, than you wouldn't find her worthy of *your* love, because (especially at that age) she doesn't feel truly worthy of love. Her issues are not your fault. Chasing this girl is going to suck ass for you, but this age is like that, so I hope you are primed for this to be one thing on the long list of shit that is gonna suck for you for the next several years. At this age everbody is struggling to be an individual (just like everybody else) and is completely fucking miserable and trying to hide it from everyone else. I don't mean to be ultra negative on this one, but at this point in almost every life, ppl are redefining who they are as individuals and reinventing themselves almost daily, which is a hard ugly painful process which usually scars us for life and makes for great stories at parties ....... ok, maybe not so great stories, but misery loves company, right? So you'll be with the IN crowd. :thumbsup:
 
Jarilith and the rest of these guys are right. Love in highschool is purely bullshit. It's about getting lucky.

You don't stop mentally maturing until you hit about 25 years old. At that age you know who you are, where you're going and all of that. That's when you can finally settle down and start actually finding love. The odds of any sort of lasting relationship that starts before age 25 are less than 50/50

Besides, don't focus on one chick. Sure she's pretty, maybe even nice to you. But move it along. She's got a man right? Even if she does breakup she's not really going to be ready for a new relationship. And if she IS ready, what's that tell you about her? That when she's done with you, she'll toss you aside like an old paper and move on to the next guy like you don't even exist.
 
Listen to the above advice.

Love in highschool is your brain tricking you into having emotions about SEX. It's just that simple. Don't be too upset, the human race, all of us, have dealt with it. It's normal. It's also normal to think you are somehow magically the "Exception" and that your love is "Real and True, not like the others." Ahhhh Genetics can be a bitch.

Love is a long and hard road. It's never easy. It doesn't happen overnight. Sadly, it rarely happens when you're young. It only feels, and hurts, like it.
 
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