How can I solve this intimacy problem?

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starryeyes

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I've been going out with this guy for over 6 months now. I am a very self conscious girl and every day I hate looking at myself because I feel I am not good enough. I don't like the way I look. This is causing major problems with him because he loves the way I look and loves me for me. He treats me so good and always there to cheer me up.

2009/2010 alot of crappy things happened to me, cheating ex and worst betrayal from my now ex best friend of almost 20 years. Then current boyfriend came along and swooped me off my feet. He's perfect in every way! But I am causing problems for us. I think I have a low sex drive due to my Low confidence and it is affecting him.

How can I just snap out of it and be more comfortable with him? I want to be with him but I'm holding up this wall.
 
1) In regards to your low self esteem do something as sexy and crazy as you can think. (Meet him naked at the door and just jump onto him for example.) Care about HIS reaction to you, not what you think. Once you do it a few times you should hopefully feel more comfortable.

2) In regards to your low sex drive... obviously your confidence boost would help, but until you get there or unless you don't... blowjobs and handjobs should help keep him happier.
 
change your hair style,get fit and loose some weight.that will boost your self esteem.that what i'm doing.besides you wanna look good and confident in the summer so start now
 
hi,
everyone see,s beauty in different ways. have you heard of the saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder? i think you do lack self confidence and self esteem but im sure over time youl get to feel better about yourself. your ex didnt help at all, nor did your so called best friend they really did hurt you. but never mind things happen for a reason and maybe your meant to be with your new boyfriend. look forward to the future and live have fun you only live once. hold your head high be proud of who you are and every morning look into that mirror and tell yourself your beautiful.(out loud) what have you achieved in your life? what are your good points? concentrate on those good things and be open and trust your new man. so go on girlie what you waiting for???? x:) good luck go on i dare you right now ring him up and tell him that you find him sexy... just see what happens. youl probably have a giggle about it afterwards but hay its all in the name of fun. youl make his day too!
 
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