How can I show more sex appeal and confidence?

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I'm almost in my last year of high school..hardly any confidence..I'm very tall.
I want to show a sexy side..For the first time I wore high heels in school and it felt pretty good..it hurt like a bi*ch at the end of the day and I was so worried about not falling(Which I have to give myself a pat on the back because I was so focused and didn't)

What more could I do to show that fire?!
 
Having a good sense of humor and really knowing yourself. If your really open and honest thats also very attractive. Guys around my age can't find girls that are really open and into things and don't party much. Being an individual and doing the things you like you'll attract a different group of people. You can also be attractive in simple ways of having a sense of style and not looking trashy, or look like you want attention.
 
I'm sure you'll get lots of tips about appearance and clothes so I won't go there in too much detail. Changing your hair can make a huge difference to how you look and feel. Makeup - concentrate on accentuating your eyes. They have the most powerful effect on others.

But mainly develop your confidence and your enjoyment in the way you move and deport yourself. That will also open up the door to experimenting with clothes and appearance.

I was a bit of a tomboy when I was at school. When the time came that I wanted to have some sex appeal, I found it awkward at first to find my swagger.

Eventually it was dance, drama and even a little martial arts that did it for me. Jazz dance made me feel confident and relaxed with my body and movement. School drama - forcing myself to perform in front of an audience - made me feel more relaxed about being seen and being watched. A little judo made me feel strong.

All of these things combined gave me the confidence to wear different clothes, to enjoy my movements and how they felt instead of slumping around self consciously and feeling gawky in front of boys.

I felt I could have a spring and a strut in my step and not feel too bothered what boys (or other girls) thought about me. It worked pretty well for me. That feeling of being happy and confident in my body has been an asset to me for my whole life. But of course I've had to keep working on those good habits all the time, topping them up and protecting them.
 
You've got to feel comfortable. I don't mean trackie dacks and a sweat shirt, wear nice stuff but make sure it's in your own style and that it's not too...out there, if that's not you. The heels sound good, you sound like they made you feel good, but maybe if you're tall that might make guys uncomfortable if you're too tall. And if you're concentrating too hard that's a bit weird too. Just go out, buy some clothes, stand tall, good posture, practice smiling in the mirror and don't be afraid to flaunt it!
 
Dressing too provocatively is going to do the opposite of looking sexy. Work on your self-confidence and self esteem first. I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but just dressing sexy is going to put out the wrong message because sexy IS an inside job - it's the way you walk like you are comfortable and happy with your body. Try yoga to help you get some polish and grace with the way you move. It's a sparkling, almost devilish look in your eye like "I have a delicious secret...." It's so many things, clothing, high heels, etc.. that's the last thing that goes into the whole package. Save the high heels for nights out with friends or homecoming/prom times as a huge tip in the sexy files is "Always beautiful is never beautiful". Save the big beauty things for more appropriate occasions than your average school day. You'll be way ahead of the rest if you keep this in mind.
 
Be happy... Smile a lot, wink, wave. A positive attitude attracts others and gives off a good vibe.

Good for you. Life is too short to live depressed... Be happy, be confident, and enjoy it!
 
I think that if you can take really good care of you hair and makeup, you will get people to notice you. You don't have to wear high heels to get people's attention...you could maybe try to change your style a lil, not too much...because you wanna make sure that you are still yourself! And plz don't go all slutty on me! cuz thats the WORST you can do(trust me) because if you do, you will only get the attention that you don't want.
good luck! and if you want you can message me for more tips =-]
 
Well, You can show a bit of skin by wearing a top that shows a little bit of a cleavege. If you always have your hair the same way all the time then try a new hairstyle curly, straight, Up, down You choose.
Wear a bit of make up but not too much.
BUT most sexiest thing is to be confident and happy with yourself.
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i think the sexiest people are those who are just themselves- if u are not comfy in heels- 4get them!
 
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