I agree to have sex with an asshole, during it he goes to fast i think say slow down but i think i sound stupid cos my voice will shake due to him thrusting so hard. Also another reason is i think if i say it he just ignore me. So i say noting think he just slow down himself. But he dosnt so i say NO, his reaction is to grab me. I then def know he heard me i think say slow down to him. But i realise he aint gona listen, so i let him continue.He lets go of my grip i lay sore waiting for it to finish.If he had stopped when i said NO, i would have said pls slow down. But fact he grabbed me freaked me out. When i said No, i didnt want sex right there to end i was hopeing to say slow down. So sex be better for me, but the grabbing was outta line. How would you move on from this, most importanly would you consider this rape?