How can I make sure he's not just with me for sex?

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Amy A

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My boyfriend and I have been together for about two months.

Sometimes when we're making out, he'll keep asking if he can go a bit further even though I keep saying no (like he'll ask five times in one make out session).

He's made comments hinting that we're moving too slowly physically. Most of the time he really seems to care about me, though.

I don't want a relationship that's based only on the physical, how can I make sure it isn't?
 
I know its hard but making him wait really shows you what he wants from you.I applaud you for your decision now. Talk to him and tell him you want to take it slow and that you wont have sex with him right away. If he agrees to stick around just for you and no sex, you got a good guy! But if his main priority is getting a gf who will sleep with him... you dont want a guy like that.
 
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