CompassTest
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All right. I met this kid who's 17, and I'm 19. Me and him have the same views, very deep about things, etc. I can get almost any girl I want. However with him, he can get none. He's always depressed, and plays games all the times. He doesn't know what the outside world is like, and he's scared. I've helped him a lot, however he still needs more work. He's chubby, with long curly hair black hair. That's not just the problem though. He use to want to be a girl... sometimes I think he does. He's not gay, it's weird. Sex just doesn't interest him. Him wanting to be a girl makes it really hard to talk with him, but I still do. I know how our mind can play with us a lot when we're depressed. He just thinks that he'll get more attention if he's a girl. Anyways, I personally think he needs a girlfriend. I've tried helping him work out a bit, but he won't stick to it. I think he needs some self motivation and esteem before he does that. I know girls go for chubby guys, so if he works on his hair, and clothing, I think he could at least get some girls. He's on xbox live all the time, and every time I sign on, he invites me to chat, and talks A LOT. Which shows his social life is pretty sad. I really want to help this kid out though. I'm not that good of a guy, but he is. He's one of the few people in this world who is still good. Please, what do you suggest I can do to help him?
Therapy is not what he needs. I can give him that, but without him knowing he's getting it. If he knows that he's getting therapy, it will just make him feel more weird. Anyways, I took him out before with my band, told them all to be nice to them. As we were talking around, we saw a group of hot girls, and had Justin(The weird kid.) to go run up and talk to them. He was just about there, until my friends suddenly began to yell out, "Go Justin" so he raced back to us. lol. But he did enjoy it. So I think he just needs more of this stuff, and if he could improve his looks...
Therapy is not what he needs. I can give him that, but without him knowing he's getting it. If he knows that he's getting therapy, it will just make him feel more weird. Anyways, I took him out before with my band, told them all to be nice to them. As we were talking around, we saw a group of hot girls, and had Justin(The weird kid.) to go run up and talk to them. He was just about there, until my friends suddenly began to yell out, "Go Justin" so he raced back to us. lol. But he did enjoy it. So I think he just needs more of this stuff, and if he could improve his looks...