How can I get my mother in law to leave me alone?

[Carlee J]

I am 30. My husband and I have been married 11 years and we are about to give birth to our 8th child. We love all of our children and we take care of all of our children. My mother in law keeps sticking her nose in our personal business. Always asking me when I am going to get my tubes tied or other rude or sarcastic comments. She helps us out not because we asked her too but because she wanted time with her grandchildren. I am just sick of her always on me. She treats me like trash. Like I am a horrible mother. How many children we decide to have is between my husband and me. I want to ask her to go away but the children love her and of course so does my husband. How do I deal with her?

 

[armaando_47]

In this world, 8 children is definitely a lot. Maybe you should cut down a little. You're mother inlaw really has a point. But if you really feel that you're right, its ok. You can tell your husband to talk to his mum. Its your life, your decisions. Maybe you should have some bonding time with her.