My husband loves sports and he loves his friends just as much. I have tried to be understanding by giving him his space, but it is very accessive to the point that he comes home really late and wont eat meals that ive cooked for him. it's pretty much get up in the morning shower and shave and then he's gone until late at night way past dinner, way past time to tuck in the kid. It's gotten to the point where we'd argue to the top of our lungs waking up the kid. i suspect that he's seeing someone else, i accuse him of this because he has done it before and as a result has a child by another woman. To top it off he runs errands for his mother and does stuff around her house that he wont do around ours. Whenever i mention how i feel about he explodes and threatens to lock me in the closet or whoop me like a child because he says that my questioning him is stupid, petty and childish that im having temper tantrums.
he claims that im trying to make him stay at home with me, i just want him to pay some bills, and take care of his responsibility as a dad and a husband. he hardly spends time with the kids we eat dinner alone, watch tv alone and when he comes home he wants to yell at us and disappear into the basement to smoke his special cigarette and god forbid we say anything to him or if i ask him to go somewhere with us then it's a problem.
am i being paranoid or do i have a valid gripe?
he claims that im trying to make him stay at home with me, i just want him to pay some bills, and take care of his responsibility as a dad and a husband. he hardly spends time with the kids we eat dinner alone, watch tv alone and when he comes home he wants to yell at us and disappear into the basement to smoke his special cigarette and god forbid we say anything to him or if i ask him to go somewhere with us then it's a problem.
am i being paranoid or do i have a valid gripe?