how can i get my husband and my mother to stop arguing.?

[Rene P]

Well it all started when they had some kind of deal going on behind my back like swooping money for computers and other lil things they got into it about that because he didnt want to give her her laptop back and she call the police on him nowing hes on probation and now today they was just arguing for nothing and the shit is getting on my nerves someone help me please.

 

[redhead27]

YOu got married... that means you decided to stop being a baby to your mother, and your heart and support is now to your spouse.

I would honestly say, you need to stand up for your husband and tell your mother to just leave him alone. He is the man that you married, he is the man that is providing for you and givng you love, he is the man that will be with you until death. You made your decision to be a grown woman and stand by HIS side when you got married. That means standing by his side through family conflicts as well. I'd say tell your mother, you are staying with him and if they can't get alone then she needs to leave him and you alone. No need for arguments, no need for insults...

 

[S H O U A♥]

kids will be kids.. all you can do is let them go at it till they learn.. you can't do anything to help.. both of them have no respect for you themselves or each other.. shame..
sounds like one of those jerry springer stories.. but i suggest you keep you nose out of it cause you dont want to be stuck in the middle

 

[Big J]

Have a 3some.

 

[Ric Hardison]

I really don't know what you just typed. If you live with your mother, move out. If she lives with you, tell her to find a new place to live. I really don't see the problem if you don't live together. If she comes over all the time then put your foot down, time to grow up.