How can I get my fling to be a booty call?

ANA

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We hooked up first in Jan, I ended it twice because I felt I wanted a rel and he didn't but after I'd end it he'd be extra flirty and turn me on and I'd sleep with him again anyway he did that again when I ended it last week but then turned me down when I came on to him!?.. said he just wanted to be friends and that if anything more happened after that that's great but if I found someone else "that's fine".

I hate that, I'm still really attracted to him and am moving away soon but I'd love that if I was ever back in town I'd be able to call him to hook up but does him turning me down the last time mean he's not attracted to me anymore?

He knows I'm leaving and turned down a last week of sleeping with me. He said to his friends on his night out yes that he needed to have sex that'd been a while, I know it was guy talk but it still hurt..
I love him so I can't leave him alone but being friends is hard, I feel like I can't act the way I am with my other guy friends like jokingly being flirty, talking about sex and nights out etc :(
 


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