Normally he's so sweet all the time, but it's like when he gets turned on he changes and all he wants is to get off. He takes a REALLY long time too. Sometimes I just cant go anymore and I'm not turned on because it's the same thing over and over. I don't know what to do to figure out how to make him get off faster and make it so that I enjoy it too. I feel like if he were more passionate then it would be easier for him to get off because he would be in a different mind set, but I really don't know how to tell him that or if I'm even right. I need some advice. We really do love each other, that's why I want to make this better.