Skyler-Ann
New member
I've already searched everything on google & stuff but none of it really answers my question or really gets me anywhere? The problem is because my husband left me & his child back at home while he left a month ago stationed in Fort Carson, Colorado where all 3 of us supposed to go. I dnt really care what he does anymore I just want help finding someone other then bothering the CO well & I have no idea how to get a hold of him! I know his information but he just recently went active & we just split before he left so I dnt know his CO? SFC? Or Unit? I just want him to do what he supposed to do & support me, my son & our unborn child on the way, like any other real man does? He left us with no money! So I can't pay for any of the things my son needs? Can't get a job bc I have no money for baby sitting, car or bus fair? And who wants to hire a pregnant person? Me & my child may just get kicked out of our home bc we have no rent money? He abused me before he left to Colorado but I didn't report him because I didn't want to ruin his career which I regret doing. & I can't get any benefits bc he doesn't want to help me so no medical? Or commissary for us. I'm a first time army wife so i wouldn't have thought this would happen to us? He left us flat on our butts & I ain't gonna let him run away from his problems without a fight to defend what's right! If he can serve the country, then why can't he man up & serve his family too...I just don't get it. I would get a divorce but dnt have money to do that? I'm not being a gold digger but it's my rights to fight what's right! Things wouldn't get nasty if only he would be a man & stop acting like a little man. So any help with getting a hold of army locators or a chaplain anybody that can help me with this problem? Please let me know ASAP thank you. And I don't think anybody should go through something like this! & if people do they should do something about it!!!