How can I find a way to get my Lady to understand the importance of discussing

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relationship issues between us? Every time I initiate a conversation to my lady on how she makes me feel when she gives me negative or silence to my questions (example: why can't we have sex ?/answer: I don't feel like it !) On this one alone I told her that if that's the case then give me some hugs and let me know that your tired or something, just don't leave at "I just don't want it" This is especially hard to deal with when we don't have sex everyday. Other things that bug me is when I ask her why is it that she feels avoids dealing with any relationship issue that I bring to her attention that affects me, and she either chucks it of as I am being insecure or overly sensitive. I know how I want to be treated and I communicate that to her as far as how we interact within our relationship. Any insights on what I can do ?
Now that's great advice from all. Thank you and I will definitely put in use what was given back to me. I will say one thing about the sex however. I've had to tell her in the past about how this playing hard to get thing she likes to play sends mixed signals to me. That has put me in some unsure situations.
 
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