...before we go any further? Okay so I really like this guy ( pretty sure he knows), but he's the bad boy player type. (he's a 17 year old 10 grader and I'm a 14 year old freshman) and we ride the bus together. And usually we just flirt but ( also when we flirt I let him get away with everything pretty much) today on the bus he went and put his arm over my shouldar. I removed it, at which point one of his friends who was sitting near by said "ohhhh ____ got rejected!" (I felt really bad at that point) When he asked I told him "were going out of order" and I refused to explain it any further. Because what I mean by it is that in order for him to do stuff like that we would have to be dating, I need a commitment! But I feel like saying that will scare him away, but if I let him I feel used. Will he understand, if I explain this to him? if he doesn't want to date can we keep how we are now?
Please advice?
Please advice?