How can i break the news to my mom that i have a myspace.?

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So everyone familiar with the worldwide site myspace..
Well i'm 13 years old in 8th grade..you have to be 14 to have one but i mean no one follows those rules.

Two years ago i got busted for having one and my mom flipped out! and yelled at me and lost trusts in me so i deleted it..but now its summer and im going to be going into 8TH GRADE THEN high school Sooon and i need to stay in touch with my friends so i made one last year in 7th grade and i haven't told my mom i really want to come clean with her though..so she will know that im not hiding anything from her..im just really really really scared to tell her because whenever i mention myspace shes like you better not have one. i don't know why its a big deal for her..!

[-PLAN #1 ]I was thinking maybe when she finds out (cause i cant keep anything from her she finds out everything)but yah when she finds out i can just say mom i've been wanting to tell you...but i was afraid to i mean myspace isn't bad its practically like an emailing thing for me i need to stay in touch with my friends and i don't add anyone i don't know ..you know just tell her that..because she can be understanding..but i need help..any advice on how to break the news to her or should i just stick to my plan #1 and wait cause i feel guilty having one behind her back..
i dont have to worry about my dad he has no idea what it is,,
HELP ANYONE
 
Actually, i'm 13 and it says on my myspace im 13
and my account didn't get deleted.
so i'm pretty sure they moved it down to 13
so just tell her
im sure she'll be cool(:
 
Okay, she lost trust in you over having myspace.... weird.. anyway just tell her you have one straight up because she's going to find out one way or another so it's best to tell her before you make one.
 
Just sit her down when shes in a extremely good mood and say, "Mom, I have a Myspace. I know your concerned, but I think I can handle it, and I'm aware of all the dangers of online." If it makes her more comfortable, show her your page, so she sees what your doing. You are pretty young though for myspace, have you considered getting a facebook? It's a bit more safer, but no online site is ever 100%.... Good luck!
 
you are going to have to tell her before she finds out and the best way is to say " mom I have a my space acct here is my password I have nothing to hide from you and I welcome you going on and seeing for yourself that I am mature enough to handle myself in this medium. Keep things G rated until shes confident that you will not give info. about yourself that could be harmful. Trust me this is the only way to win her over
 
Ask her if you can share your myspace. Give her you password and all your details and say she can monitor it and if she still doesnt feel safe with you having it, you will delete it.

Tell her you are mature enough for your own desisons and it is the only way you can keep in touch with your friend.

If all fails, break down in tears
 
well at ur age ur mom is just trying to protect u.
u can try to convincer her to let u keep it by showing that ur using it safely and responsibly

1 let her check ur friends u should only have ppl that u honsetly know (like u know them in person)

2 show her the security settings

3 u dont have to let her read them but scan through ur inbox n show her ur not talkin to stragers

4 ask her to get one and be ur friend so she can check on u

5 only if u want to and dont have any thing to hide give her ur password
 
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