How can he hate sex? Dealbreaker or not?

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Well, we had sex for the first time and I thought it was great. We were obsessed with how everyone else done it and we haven't (We're 16) so we did it and I thought it was fun and exciting. I couldn't last long and orgasmed to fast but he didn't seem to enjoy it throughout. Anyways, I liked it and I wanted to do it again with him.

Well, I called him to meet me tonight and he said that he shouldn't have given up his virginity and that he loves me but not the sex. He just sounded really disappointed at himself and all I remember about what he exactly said was that it wasn't what he expected and dreamed about and the horniness got the best of him.

So he said he didn't want to do it again for now but he asked if I wanted to go to the movies instead. I was stupid cuz I kinda got frustrated so I called him gay and hung up on him, but I really love him and don't want to leave him. I still want sex so should I just have like a surgar daddy that I just use for sex. I don't know what to do?
 
It should be a deal breaker.
For him, not you. Your reaction is disgusting, he has his reasons, whatever they are, but you have no reason to get angry with him.
I hope the poor sod tells you to sling your hook and finds someone that maybe is good at sex or even better, good at being a decent person, then perhaps he can enjoy it.
 
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