How can a woman fairly complain when a man she's not interested in asks her out?

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Kohana

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You answered your own question. I think you just needed to vent. And i guess because some people period, not just women are bitchy, they can complain about how men/women they like never ask them out, its not really justified but bitchy people don't do things cause it makes sense. So i agree with you its harder to ask some one and be let down than to just turn some one down.
 
Unless either she herself is the type of woman who asks men out, or she doesn't like the idea of dating PERIOD, she is in no position to be making judgments about someone who is expected to do the initiation. It's not like HE's being asked out; with a very few exceptions, guys don't get asked out. HE's the one putting himself out there and risking rejection, while she sits around doing nothing, allowing guys to come to her.

By all means, tell him no. But don't complain about it after the fact. Women generally have a very diminished understanding of what it's like to face the world without having everything handed to them on a silver platter, particularly when it comes to relationships. So, in a sense, it's sort of a classic case of beggars-can't-be-choosers.
 
Women ask guys out sometimes. She has a right to complain if a guy she DOESN'T like asks her out. Hello! I would be freaked out if some guy I didn't like asked me out. And beggers can be choosers if the girl is gorgeous.
 
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