malutka112
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I wanted to know your opinion on this matter:
I am a 22 year old women who had plans involving moving to Europe in around 4 months or so. Meanwhile I am looking for a temporary relationship, that could enliven this phase of my life a bit more. I met someone older who didn't seem to mind that I was leaving, but seemed to be hoping for something more emotional, perhaps more involved. I am afraid I came in too strong, as I do in fact, am mainly looking for something fun and mainly physical. How should I go about getting what I want? It seems like this guy is afraid, or would be afraid of me being so forward as to actually ask him to be with me in such a manner. Women are not supposed to do this, right? But I hate games, and I don't want to play hard to get like a girl. So? What is the strategy here? Any ideas, women, men, anyone?
I am a 22 year old women who had plans involving moving to Europe in around 4 months or so. Meanwhile I am looking for a temporary relationship, that could enliven this phase of my life a bit more. I met someone older who didn't seem to mind that I was leaving, but seemed to be hoping for something more emotional, perhaps more involved. I am afraid I came in too strong, as I do in fact, am mainly looking for something fun and mainly physical. How should I go about getting what I want? It seems like this guy is afraid, or would be afraid of me being so forward as to actually ask him to be with me in such a manner. Women are not supposed to do this, right? But I hate games, and I don't want to play hard to get like a girl. So? What is the strategy here? Any ideas, women, men, anyone?