Hot bartender situation *EMERGENCY*?

Jade

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ok first of all. . I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP! pretty PLEASE! :(

So like a month back I was in a bar with my friends (daytime), and I flirted with a bartender, we stared at each other for about 5s few times and few days after I added him on facebook (small town) and messaged him the day after (i asked him if he's the one that mixes those awesome cocktails at.. :) ), he replied and we started talking about cocktail shakers because i was about to buy one and asked him what type is the best. he told me which, but those are not buyable here so he said "you gotta know the right people :D ;)" .. i asked him if he has any suggestions and he said sth like "let yourself be surprised :D"
So we chatted a bit and he asked me if i'm coming around anytime soon, he told me he works on friday and maybe saturday too, I went on saturday but he wasn't working -.-
So since then I've gone for two times, same thing-flirting, he said hello, smiled. I can't go that often because I'm in college and I'm at home only on weekends :/
THEEN yesterdaaay.. went there with a friend, he was working. he came to the table like "hey, what can i get u?", but he didn't have what we ordered so we got an alternative- he and the other bartender that brought it, made an extra strong long island ice tea :D
sooo again we stared at each other and when he went out with his friend for a smoke, on his way back he passed me and shaked something at my head, it sounded like sth with ice in it and he was looking at me, so i just smiled since he was walking back to the bar. :)
so there's also a clubbing area connected to the bar with a passage. my friend wanted to do a "catwalk" in front of him because he was coming back from there to the bar, but he didn't even bother to look at her, then he passed me again when i was still alone and asked if "you okay?" (couldn't start a convo he asked while he was walking).
so when they were closing the bar i didn't get the chance to say bye to him and we went to the clubbing area. he came too with his friend 10min later and sat at the bar where his co-workers were working.
me and my friend were dancing and basically every time i looked at him, he was looking at me or talking to his friend and they were both looking at us lol. but then they left :( he came back alone, sat for 2-3minutes and then he left too :(

a day later he liked my status on fb.

WHAT NOW? i'm going there this friday with a friend, so i'm clueless what to do :S
 
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