Blue_Orchide190
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I am having AWFUL mood swings now that I am pregnant. I am starting my 16th week tomorrow, and I guess it's not over yet. In the beginning I was always sort of a short tempered person. But NEVER anything like this... I mean, I'm certainly not violent or anything! Just mean~
Reasoning's & Rant: (HELP)
But my partner and I are always getting into fights it seems because almost everything he does bugs me
He works at a pay + commission type job right now, and he's the only one of us working. So $$ is a most for him to make and he's doing great! But because customers come first, I've often gone to meet him/pick him up from work, and he's still working after his shift is done! It's not uncommon for me to have to wait an extra 30mins to an hour for him to finish up with a customer.
One time about a week and a half ago a customer came into the store last minute before it closed and he couldn't turn them away. So I was waiting for him, outside, for an hour and 20mins... I was irritated that that. Especially since I always seemed to be waiting when HE's the one asking me to meet him.
Now YESTERDAY he was off at 6, so I met him at 15 too - he ended up having to work over time, and making me wait int the store for him in the back for 3 extra hours!!
I was reeeeally mad and gave him the silent treatment so I didn't say anything I'd regret. But I ended up blowing up and it's probably been our biggest fight in a long, long while
WHAT DO I DO???
I need to respect him more and be more patient. But these damned hormones have me swinging from branch to branch! I know he needs to do what he needs to do in order to bring us in money. And he can't just leave a customer to come talk to me to tell me to leave either. I don't know....
Any suggestions please? These mood swings are driving us both crazy!!!
Sorry about the length ~ THANKS! xx
Reasoning's & Rant: (HELP)
But my partner and I are always getting into fights it seems because almost everything he does bugs me
He works at a pay + commission type job right now, and he's the only one of us working. So $$ is a most for him to make and he's doing great! But because customers come first, I've often gone to meet him/pick him up from work, and he's still working after his shift is done! It's not uncommon for me to have to wait an extra 30mins to an hour for him to finish up with a customer. One time about a week and a half ago a customer came into the store last minute before it closed and he couldn't turn them away. So I was waiting for him, outside, for an hour and 20mins... I was irritated that that. Especially since I always seemed to be waiting when HE's the one asking me to meet him.
Now YESTERDAY he was off at 6, so I met him at 15 too - he ended up having to work over time, and making me wait int the store for him in the back for 3 extra hours!!
I was reeeeally mad and gave him the silent treatment so I didn't say anything I'd regret. But I ended up blowing up and it's probably been our biggest fight in a long, long while WHAT DO I DO???
I need to respect him more and be more patient. But these damned hormones have me swinging from branch to branch! I know he needs to do what he needs to do in order to bring us in money. And he can't just leave a customer to come talk to me to tell me to leave either. I don't know....
Any suggestions please? These mood swings are driving us both crazy!!!
Sorry about the length ~ THANKS! xx