livingthedream
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I used the term -intimacy- for -sexual-, just in case the real one would scare people away.
My fiancé´s sexual desires are different from mine. He says he loves me and that he wants to make a family with me BUT I don´t think we match at all: He wants to come on my face most of the times, I want him to come inside me. He can´t explain to me WHY it feels so good for him to come on my face. For ME coming inside is like telling me that he loves me, that he wants to bond with me.
I´ve told him this, but he insists that he wants to come outside most of the times.
I don´t get it.
I guess he wants to do this ´coz he has seen it on porn. He loves porn. I don´t.
Is he really in love with me? Will we b able to be happy in our marriage? or Will we end up, him looking for women who want to have porn type sex with him, and me bitter and resentful?
I really don´t have a clue. Could u please give some advice?
Thanks.
My fiancé´s sexual desires are different from mine. He says he loves me and that he wants to make a family with me BUT I don´t think we match at all: He wants to come on my face most of the times, I want him to come inside me. He can´t explain to me WHY it feels so good for him to come on my face. For ME coming inside is like telling me that he loves me, that he wants to bond with me.
I´ve told him this, but he insists that he wants to come outside most of the times.
I don´t get it.
I guess he wants to do this ´coz he has seen it on porn. He loves porn. I don´t.
Is he really in love with me? Will we b able to be happy in our marriage? or Will we end up, him looking for women who want to have porn type sex with him, and me bitter and resentful?
I really don´t have a clue. Could u please give some advice?
Thanks.