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Nah, I mean, like...okay, sitting down in field or climbing a mountain with my junk hanging out, that would not produce any good results. But I don't exactly have to worry about much if I'm just going shirtless.

Plus, without pants I'd have to watch out for horny, nature-lovin', vegan granola freaks hiding in the bushes. They're everywhere here. Everywhere.
 
Yes, I think most everyone here is questioning that perception. Is it because they're sensitive, and fun to touch? Sure, but my man boobs are just as sensitive, yet I'm allowed to expose them freely(Please don't touch them, I hate that.).

Why is that?



So, should I cover my eyes? What part of the body is incapable, in somebody's eyes, of generating arousal?

Really, where can we draw the line, logically?
 
I think everyone with a well-defined jawline should cover that shit up. Pretty jawlines get me very hot and bothered, and those people who have them have no right to go gallavanting around distracting me.
 
Most of sexual arousal comes from pheromones and our perception of a potential mate to bear children. We look at the hips and the breasts to determine the potential mates ability to have and raise a child. At least thats the more primal side. Of course as humans we have developed essentially an override of that and replaced it with personality and other things.

Though I dont have female breasts... I would almost certainly disagree with the assertion that your boobs are just as sensative as female boobs.

In our society... I believe that boobs are seen as the paramount sexual organ. I mean... everyone loves some vagina... but boobs are what we get to play with during intercourse. They dont call em funbags for nothing.

I also think that a part of our sexual culture is wonder... not knowing what it looks like... not being able to see it... and when we finally do... we just know what the hell is going to happen and boing... get down to buisiness.

I know other cultures dont really give a shit and walk around full tit... and I would imagine that breasts are less involved in intercourse than our culture.

I think we should keep things the way they are. Girls walk around in the privacy of your home however you want. When in society... just cover it up. In a strip joint... I think its kinda dumb...

But after all I've said... "girls gone wild" pwns my whole argument.
 
Meh. I definitely see where you're coming from, but it seems that by that logic women should keep themselves covered up for the sake of preserving the traditional ways of sexual attraction and sexual lifestyle, which is - in my opinion - bullshit.

Shouldn't our laws shift so as to represent our shifting culture? Sure, boobs are still generally thought of to be the ultimate sexual feature on a woman, but that is slowly changing. Sexuality is becoming less and less easily definable.
 
I agree... but thats why you have woman empowerment movements and you have women that identify themselves as traditional and conventional.

Until we can get over social taboo's things will likely stay how they are.

I personally enjoy not knowing and not being able to see all the time. It makes things more passionate for me.

Now I understand some people are different and wouldnt change their sexual drive if women walked around in the nude... and of course you have the converse that want a woman covered head to toe.

To each their own.

At the same time the question comes up on the infringement of peoples rights on the issue. Like... one group says no dont show it all... because it violates my rights and beliefs... and then some say well I should be able to show it all and because I cant you have infringed upon my rights and beliefs.

Unfortunately... I think a large part of this movement to cover women up is from religious sectors. Which to me... in the case of a strip joint or whatever... if you dont like watching the boobies... stay the fuck out the strip club.

But just like there are differences in beliefs and quests in life... some people quest to make all subject to their beliefs which I think is wrong.

Show tits in a stip club... that should be a happy comprimise for all. Or at least create some place where those that want to show off their goods can do so freely without scrutiny by all these others that would rather not see it.

I think CA still has swinger clubs... not sure if they're illegal or whatever. But you know... something where the more "up to date" lifestyles can go and freely express who and how they are without subjecting the whole of society to their lifestyle.

Again... if those that disbelieve in a particular way of life dont like those that believe in it and how they act... stay the fuck away. Nobody has to go to a strip club or swinger club... or nudist beach or anything else of the sort. Let the nekkid be nekkid in designated areas if they so please.
 
Hmmm. Maybe there should be nudist colonies dispersed evenly throughout the United States, just to keep everyone happy. :tongue:

*sigh* Really, I'm just so tired of all the hubbub about sex. I was raised not to be afraid or uncomfortable with my body or anyone else's. I was taught to respect people's personal habits, and to understand that sex/sexuality is an inherent part of existence, and not something to be ashamed of.

I know that it's unrealistic to believe this will happen in the near future, but I really just want people to get over the fucking taboos and let things go. Most people seem entirely too uptight for my taste.

Anyway, guys are usually allowed to walk around shirtless all over the place, and you don't see women or gay men flipping out about it. Yes, I know it's because we're conditioned to accept that sort of thing, but still, I find it very irksome.
 
I have seen gay men freak out about shirtless guys. Women as well. Now... I dont think it would be the same as maybe a guy to a shirtless chick... but really how would people react?

I assume that if it were in a public place... people would simply look... not really grope or anything like that. Maybe a few whistles here and there.... but nothing disgusting.

Now put that same situation in a club... and guys would be buying drinks and accidentally bumping into her. And as I've seen in gay clubs gay guys sometimes go nuts over "a really hot gay guy" who is shirtless. You also have the queens and cross dressers that get tons of attention... you've not experience an oddity of life until you have seen a drag parade or drag show.

I think sex is sex regardless of male or female or sexual orientation. While the reproductive organs are the ultimate goal... I'm sure chicks like a shirtless man with a nice chest and abs... as much as we like a shirtless chick with nice tits and flat stomach. Also... Gay men and women get off respectively.

But the issue is strip clubs... Who the hell cares if people are showing tits in a strip club. They're all consenting legal adults... and if they wanna get nekkid for money, blue balls and drinks... let them. Nobody should be able to stop them.

Now when they start serving food at strip clubs (like some do) I would expect there to be vastly separated area's for nekkidness and eating. Perhaps separate it by glass?
 
So have I. What I meant was, it's not a big deal. If I'm downtown and a guy is walking around shirtless, sure he's going to get a few looks, but no one will be gasping or declaring how offended they are. It's just another dude showing his chest.




Trust me. I know. I've been to my fair share of pride events, as well as witnessed many (and sometimes been a part of) drag shows.



Agreed. People banning partial nudity in strip clubs is just asinine.



What? You've never craved some cheese fries with your lap dance?
 
Of my knowledge, if a guy is walking around with his pants hanging down, all the women and other men have a fit about it. And yet, if a woman is topless or with her pants hanging down, everyone is like, damn! And of course whistling and honking horns.
But heck, I remember in history when men freaked out over a woman showing an ankle. I mean, who in the heck gets a boner over an ankle? A freak?
 
That's more of a cultural thing. Like how in Japanese (Japanese, right? Not Chinese?...I'm going with it) culture, a geisha will let the sleeve of her kimono slip while she is serving tea to reveal part of her wrist. It's considered erotic to the man watching.
 
Yeah that's Japanese. In China the only thing that's frowned up a lot (in public) is if a woman shows cleavage. Geez Louise.

There are double standards I suppose, and it's only because everyone is afraid of penises. Everyone needs to get over that, seriously. But I believe the general population would be against anyone just walking around the streets bottomless.
 
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