be on top, he told me the? Hi My boyfreind and I have a great sex life, But he can go one round and cant realy be on top, he told me the other night we cant have sex every day any more because it is taking all his testosterone, and he is now not building like he should be a gym, he said all the guys told him sex is bad for bulcking up, I feel realy bad because I know he loves his body and wants to get big.Is this true. One more thing, I always have to be ontop or else it goes down,why could that be,unless he is drunk.He can also only get hard once, he says its not me,but I really feel like it is me, and it hurts to feel that way, I am not like other women I love to focus on him cumming, and have as much pleasure as I give him. Please help me.