hi,I'm Sara. I'm 19yr. I have serious problem in relashionship, specially with the

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other sex!? my problem is : I get closer to the guy, be my self and have great time; but when I feel like he start s to like me or want me or even want to go to another level in the relationship I walk away and say no, I'm sorry.
I don't know why I do that. It's torturing. It's like :It's ok if I get closer to you, but you do not get closer to me. help me please, because I don't wanna hurt people any more or even my self
;( thnx
 
I completely get that. I have the same problemo...it drives me crazy. I have broken up with guys that I really like bcos i feel like things are getting too serious or whatever. But the minute i see they are over me i want them back again...I think its because of not wanting to get hurt, i know that when i feel a guy is beginning to like me I feel like i want to push him away, the only thing i can think of is because i feel very vulnerable in that position and i am likely to get hurt. I dont have much help on this one. I can only empathise and offer you support from experience....hope things wrk out for you

Much love xxx
 
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