Hey boys, this is a question for you about sex...?

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Catrina

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Why do some men feel the need to put other men down for being a virgin? In this day and age, alot of men (and women) are ridiculed for still being a virgin. I have not met alot of males that are still virgins, but the ones that I have are too ashamed to admit it because they do not want to be laughed at by other men. For some reason, alot of guys who have lost their virginity think that is what it takes to be "manly". Why is that? What does having sex have to do with becoming "masculine"? I am very curious to know because I am a girl who is 19 and still hasn't kissed anybody (let alone have sex), and I think it doesn't matter whether or not a guy is a virgin or not, but other men seem to very critical over it. Is it jealousy?
 
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Most likely, you are not going to find an answer from the men on this page. My sexual expernces, I wouldnt exactly call them manly. There is no such thing as "taking it" like a man with gay people. Just thought I would let you know.
 
for girls, its not a big deal (most of the time). for guys (and even gay guys) its something about masculinity and like, your scale on a social level.they think like "if you havent had sex, then you must not be cool or able to." its just something beaten into our heads from a young age, and i dont know why. im a virgin :)
 
yeah i know. its annoying, my friends, who i know are mostly maybe even ALL virgins who give me crap about that every time we hang out. when i have sex, i dont want it to be with some drunk hussy at a party. i want to be dating someone i like. they think that they its cool to have sex. that question is always a double edge sword when your with guys and girls. it isnt the kind of respect i want. i dont want respect for sleeping around, which is taking advantage of random girls who are usualy to drunk or to stupid to say no. everyone laughs at u, even the girls when you admit it. maybe there just laughing at u becuse deep down they know they wish they had waited themselves. when a girl wont put out shes a stupid, stuck up, b__tch and when she does, even just once with her boy friend, it makes her a wh-ore to everyone she knows. when a guy is a virgin hes a gay loser, when he does hes cool ... why is that. i hate it so much, its not the respect i want, im better than that.
 
Well, biologically speaking, it IS considered highly masculine to bugger anything that moves and spread your genetic material as much as possible. That's where the idea that it's "manly" comes from: it's masculine to go out and conquer as many young virgins as possible. Basically, the more you bugger, the bigger your balls.

Also, a lot of teenage guys who brag about having sex actually haven't. Several guys I knew in high school would vocally talk about how much sex they were having, when really, they weren't. They were insecure and would often tell others that they were having sex with tons of women to feel better about their masculinity.
 
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