Losing Hope - hello. I came over to post an update on my L5/S1 problem and saw your post.
It is true they do not like to jump into surgery for most people. Lots of people get to a better state with only conservative care - especially on the lurabar conditions. However, pain is a condition that surgeons will operate for if all other conservative measures are unsuccessful at treating your condition and when there is a clear structural problem causing the pain. An accurate diagnosis is essential! For patients who suffer from pain, but no specific anatomical cause of the pain can be found, spinal surgery is not advised and non-surgical treatments are recommended
Most excellent surgeons will evaluate the "quality of your life vs. condition" and make decisions and recommedations.
If you have tried the conservative care, and sought out a good interventional Pain Medicine Specialist - and are still not functioning at the proper level, you should be evaluated for what methoRAB have been tried along with surgical intervention as a possibility. Do not be afraid to seek a couple different opinions. I know one woman who was going to what was thought to be a top Pain practice, and they did not help her. On recommendation she went to another pain practice and they were able to help her case.
Surgery is not always the answer! I also noticed you wrote the injections did not help you, that might be an indicator that surgery "might" not help you either because they haven't gotten to the bottom of what is causing your pain. There are lots of examples of people who go through surgery and
although they get a little better, pain and other problems will still remain. Some do get fixed, but your case sounRAB complicated in that you also have fiibromyalgia. I am wondering what is the highest level pain medication they have tried you on? Also exactly what medications did they try? Also just as a side note, if you do not live in a sunny climate and get lots of sun, you might have your Vitamin D level checked, because low D levels, can play havoc on Fibro and spine conditions and actually cause an increase in your pain levels. Every little thing helps.
The other thing is has anyone discussed alternatives like internal pain pump, or spinal cord stimulator? Not sure if these fit your case, but certainly - they are also worth investigating. The pain pump is usually reserved for people wo don't do well with the medications either responding or side effects. Some people with lower lurabar isssues are helped by even external TENS units.
Pain, it is exhausting, believe me - I know. I have problems in all parts of my spine and it is a battle. I have been in those depths before where I just got really depressed thought that there wasn't hope, but all I can say is to try to step back, figure out what you can do and make a run at it. Push hard for every diagnostic test available like the things already done plus EMGs, discograms, other blocks, etc. I know it is costly and exhausting but you need to get some good result to show if pain is coming from your spine.
My thoughts are with you. Good luck.