Help with sex and marriage?

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Mimi

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We've been married 8 years and have 3 great kids together, but over the past year or two things have gone downhill between us (lots of arguing, resentment, etc). We've been going to marriage counseling, which has helped a bit, but the problem remains with sex. I don't want to have sex with him - and of course he's upset, but trying to be understanding about it. (i still have sex drive, just not with him) I feel horrible about it, but I just can't do it because my heart's not in it, you know?

Has anyone ever experienced this? Is it normal? Will it get better? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
 
you should divorce since sex is one of the most important parts of marriage

you only have one life to be happy, you don't get a second chance

as living beings we get born, grow and die, so do relationships and it seems like your flame for him is gone, it's no one's fault, just the course of life
i hope he will understand; don't try to push something that's not working, you could spend years doing that and finally realizing it was worse...

good luck
 
You say you're in marriage counseling. What does your counselor say about your lack of desire to have sex with your husband? This is an appropriate counseling topic, you know.
 
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