Help with ex-girlfriend. Meeting up with her shortly. Don't know what to discuss?

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J.J.

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I'm meeting up with ex-girlfriend (she broke up with me 6 months ago) we were on and off for a couple of months and then we haven't talked for 3 months. She left me a voicemail on thanksgiving, wishing me a happy one, etc. and also wanted to get some of her remaining things. where should we meet up to exchange the stuff? how should i act? what should i say? she has a boyfriend, and she will be moving far away in the near future. Please help with advice. i still have feelings for her. ugh. since i found out that we are meeting up, i have all these butterflies in my stomach as well.
 
If you are of age; meet up somewhere where you can have a drink to "take the edge off" I went through the same thing about 1 1/2 years ago and we met up at TGI Friday's and having a drink really helped. I think that you should act cool, as if the fact that she has a boyfriend doesn't matter to you. Remember, if you love her; you only want her to be happy; even if it's with someone else. The hardest part is letting go and I think that you meeting up will hopefully help bring closure to you. As much as it sucks; those butterflies will only increase when you see her, when she does simple little things that you loved....but as I said, you should just be happy that she's happy; even if it isn't with you. You'll find someone better, but stay strong durring the meeting...try not to talk about the past so much because it will still show that you have feelings for her. It will kill her if you act like it doesn't matter.

Good Luck!!
 
that sucks.
Just attempt to forget about her, and don't get your hopes up for this meeting with her, it sounds like she's moved on, sorry.
I'm sure you'll meet someone new soon, when you least expect it and you'll forget all about this chick:)
Hope everything works out for you x
 
Meet someplace public, think a cafe or a burger joint. Be yourself. Be warm and friendly discuss friends, family, ask how her Thanksgiving was, WHATEVER YOU DO! don't discuss your feelings for her, or her boyfriend, unless she brings him up then deftly try and change the subject, mention a cool movie you saw ( nice way to move into that is, "Oh yeah that reminds me...". The thing is she has boyfriend, and trust me that's one thing relationship karma will kick your butt on. Right now try to be her friend.
 
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