help what should i do?

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My sister is married to a lazy cheater who thinks hes god's gift to woman well my sister finally has had enough and decided to leave the *** and tell him they are over and she wants nothing to do with him and the only contact shes going to have with him is during visitation of the baby Rebecca Charlotte. He put her down called her names and told her that she wasted her money on education since all women are good for is staying home and being pregnant and said hes only allowing her to work cause she makes good money. He was emotionally and psychically absusive to her and had too know who she was with at all times. He called like 20 times when we out a movie once. My parents loved him to death and are calling her stupid and he was the best thing to happen too her. He totally played my parents well shes staying with me and my husband and hes telling everyone that shes cheated and the baby isn't his cause he can only produce boys and its a girl so it isn't his and he's wanting a ton of money in the divorce. I know hes cheated at least 10 times should i testify against him if i get called up. I am trying to help her but do you think i am doing the right thing.he cheated while she was pregnant and that was the staw that broke the camels back and no shes ready to do alone w no help from him and let him suffer and hed turn his parential rights over since he says shes not his.the thing that is so messed up is he is staying with my parents
 
yeah you should and tell her to have a court ordered paternity test thrown in to the paperwork as well. if she had any of the physical abuse documented have her make sure it is it for evidence also.
 
Yes you are doing the right thing. Your parents need to mind their own business. If they think he is so great then they can marry him. Stand up to them for her and with her and tell her to do what is best for her and for Rebecca. She is smart to get out now before he ruins how she feels about herself. Help her to stand strong.
 
She is lucky to have a sister who would do this for her.There are too many emotionallly and physically abusive situations out there, a woman should not have to put up with that. I raised my first child on my own would not even put her natural fathers name on the Birth Certificate, I have not seen him since I was 6 months pregnant with her. I was glad that he was not in the picture. I stayed with my sister for a year. Family looks after Family where I come from and your parents, should be supportive of their own... Shame !
 
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