Help. We keep arguing and that's not like us. Sign of the worst to come?

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Mia S

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Lately my partner and i, more so my parter have been under alot of pressure at work. He's really unhappy there and am very busy and we tend to be getting into stupid arguments which just isnt like us at all. I mean about silly immature things like he'll say "i dont care if you dont want to be with me. just dump me" or if im talking about someone he'll be like "if you wanna go with him do it i dont care" and to be honest i make the situation worse by arguing back. I know that my partner loves me to pieces but i cant help thinking that this will start to damage our relationship if we dont try and stop it now. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any ideas on how to deal with this?
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me and my boyfriend get in fights over little not importent things i learned that when u been together for so long u tend to fight more some thing my mom told me is when ur in a relationship if u dont fight some things wrong just rememder u love each other thats what always help me and we have been together for 1yr and 3+ months and we have had 5 really really bad fight but we r still together so we must be doing something right (hope this helps)
 
Hi Mia,

Try and find a couple who haven't been through a period like this. Honestly, it happens to most couples and unfortunately, not all of them make it through.

I'm not a Counsellor of any kind so I'm not really sure what I can say to help, but perhaps designating some time each week, just an hour or so, for you two to spend time together might be helpful. Alternatively, you could try some stress-relieving things so you don't feel quite so tempted to bite back or initiate an argument.

Times are tough at the moment and unfortunately, it's our partners who get the sharp end of our frustration.

I hope things go well for you and your partner.
 
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