Help talking to Mom about sex talk?

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Mandy Turner

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I'm 14. A while back in the summer after 5th grade, Mom told me about "it". She told me about anatomy (both boy and girl), puberty, STDs, and she told me that sperm and egg join together in the woman's body by a man putting his penis into her vagina. And then she told me, "there's more, but that's all you need to know for now." That was 4 years ago now I'm 14 and she hasn't talked to me about sex. I want to her to tell me the rest of it but I'm scared of what to say. By 14 should I know more than what I know now? Please help me with my dilemma.
 
All my mom gave me was a book and that's it. I never had the sex talk. If you are wanting to know more (which it kind of sounds like she covered the majority) just sit her down and say you want to talk more about it. Bring up that she said there was more she'd tell you about later and you want to know what it is. I'm guessing she'll talk to you more about protection since you're getting to the age where you're going to here more about it. If not please ask your mom about different forms of it for when you do decide to be intimate with someone. :)
 
The best way to get your mother to discuss it with you is to ask her a simple question. "How long did you breast feed me?" Where was I conceived?" "How old were you when you first kissed and had sex?" "If you could have your virginity again, would you want it?" Basic stuff like that to open the door. Once she is talking to you just bring up the stuff you want to know about.
 
I learned everything from kids ay school in middle school before my mom even told me. Lol. You probably should knower more by now. Ask your dad
 
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