thisisagameid
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FOREWARNING- This is very long and complicated and yes, everyone involved are adults...as hard as that is to believe.
So I've been friends with this one guy (now on referred to as guy1) for about a year and a half and he's always expressed that he's had feelings for me. When I first met him I was attracted to him and I told him about it. Well we ended up hooking up a few times but then we stopped talking for 5 months because I told him that this wasn't what I wanted. I began hanging out with him again about a month ago and he told me he still had deep feelings for me and I told him I didn't want a relationship but that I cared for him. We were hanging out one day and I met one of his friends (now on referred to as guy2). Instantly I was interested in guy2 and wanted to know more about him. As we hung out that same night me and guy2 really clicked: we were interested in the same things, we could hold a conversation, and we just seemed like we knew each other for years. One day I drove guy2 home and gave him my number. We hung out shortly after alone and it was the best night I've had in years. I was so happy and we got along perfectly and even though we had both wanted to have sex, he said he wanted to wait. Well, guy1 didn't like this very much when he found out we had hung out once alone and that we had kissed. He talked to guy2 and told him that if he wanted to remain friends that guy2 couldn't talk to me anymore. Guy2 went to one of our shared friends for advice. He told her that he really liked me and wanted to date me but guy1 wouldn't be there anymore and she said that he should stop talking to me. Well, he did. I kept texting him asking him what was going on because he wouldn't talk to me but he would never respond. About a week or two after wards I sent him a text saying guy1 had ditched me(we were supposed to hang out) to have alone time with one of his girl friends and guy2 finally answered. I was ecstatic!! He asked if I wanted to get together a few days later and I said yes. We hung out and even though he kept saying he wanted to wait...we ended up having sex. After this I went to one of his concerts and I could tell he still had feelings for me but then guy1 showed up. I only saw guy2 and guy1 talk for a minute but then guy2 left without saying goodbye. He hasn't contacted me despite my efforts since that night and it's been a few weeks. I still miss him and don't know how to make this better again. Please, anybody, I need advice! Do I forget about him, does he need time, was all he wanted sex, is there anything I could say to guy1 or guy2? =[ I'm so sad right now I just don't know what to do.
So I've been friends with this one guy (now on referred to as guy1) for about a year and a half and he's always expressed that he's had feelings for me. When I first met him I was attracted to him and I told him about it. Well we ended up hooking up a few times but then we stopped talking for 5 months because I told him that this wasn't what I wanted. I began hanging out with him again about a month ago and he told me he still had deep feelings for me and I told him I didn't want a relationship but that I cared for him. We were hanging out one day and I met one of his friends (now on referred to as guy2). Instantly I was interested in guy2 and wanted to know more about him. As we hung out that same night me and guy2 really clicked: we were interested in the same things, we could hold a conversation, and we just seemed like we knew each other for years. One day I drove guy2 home and gave him my number. We hung out shortly after alone and it was the best night I've had in years. I was so happy and we got along perfectly and even though we had both wanted to have sex, he said he wanted to wait. Well, guy1 didn't like this very much when he found out we had hung out once alone and that we had kissed. He talked to guy2 and told him that if he wanted to remain friends that guy2 couldn't talk to me anymore. Guy2 went to one of our shared friends for advice. He told her that he really liked me and wanted to date me but guy1 wouldn't be there anymore and she said that he should stop talking to me. Well, he did. I kept texting him asking him what was going on because he wouldn't talk to me but he would never respond. About a week or two after wards I sent him a text saying guy1 had ditched me(we were supposed to hang out) to have alone time with one of his girl friends and guy2 finally answered. I was ecstatic!! He asked if I wanted to get together a few days later and I said yes. We hung out and even though he kept saying he wanted to wait...we ended up having sex. After this I went to one of his concerts and I could tell he still had feelings for me but then guy1 showed up. I only saw guy2 and guy1 talk for a minute but then guy2 left without saying goodbye. He hasn't contacted me despite my efforts since that night and it's been a few weeks. I still miss him and don't know how to make this better again. Please, anybody, I need advice! Do I forget about him, does he need time, was all he wanted sex, is there anything I could say to guy1 or guy2? =[ I'm so sad right now I just don't know what to do.